No Prince Charming?

I think I maybe be one of the few people in this the Univercity (I wont say " in the world " though I sometimes think it) that is NOT interested in relationships.
I am really bored with all this "find someone", "share things", etc. For all I know, I hate sharing!
Let's just say that for the time being this is me!

So, why do you people lecture me about it?! Why should I feel guilty about it? Why, even though I don't want to be involved with my prince charming, I have to justify this fact all the time? I do not have issues. I am in perfect harmony with myself. I don't seem to go around telling every couple "it's ok, you'll definately be free oneday again"! Why should I hear "it's ok, you'll definately find someone. He's just around the corner!"

Ok, thank you for the information...now I can safely stay away from that corner!!

I may exaggerate a bit, but I just want to get the message across. Though people keep talking about freedom of choice and different ways of life, the prejudice still exists: people with no other half, are only half and are waiting for someone to come their way.

We see it in the movies, in the ads, in the love songs, practically everywhere. So it affects us anyway. I also speak for myself actually. I have been in various relationships just because of outside pressure, of various insecurities at the time, and mostly to prove to myself that I didn't have any 'problem' that made me different from others and didn't let me commit.
Well, the length of those relationships just proved me that I should have been honest with myself in the first place. I shouldn't have done something that I knew was wrong.

So ok, I prefer going shopping alone, I like having coffee with my friends, I love to draw anything that gets my attention, I like playing my guitar alone in the dark, read my books, doing sports, programming in Java and singing aloud in the bathroom!
What's wrong with that?

We should do what we want. We should express ourselves in any way we want. Don't waste your time living the lives of other people just beacause you are afraid to live your own. Do you want to be single? So be it! Do you want to find someone special? Well, go on! What are you waiting for?

You know, someday your prince charming will come. Oh, what about mine you say? Mine just took a wrong turn, got lost, and is too stubborn to ask for directions! :)
Till he comes, I'll just keep hanging around, having fun and surprising the world!

We'll be in touch friends.
Until then, have a wonderful evening!